A Passage for October

A recent photo sent in from a YA satsang gathering in Santa Cruz

A recent photo sent in from a YA satsang gathering in Santa Cruz

There are many aspects of Easwaran's method of meditation that appeal to us here at the YA Blog Team, but our favorite is the passages. After last month's look at "Just Because You Are My God", we wanted to memorize a passage that didn't have any traditional religious language in it. We chose "United in Heart" from the Rig Veda and it has been a great addition to our meditation repertoire.

Many YAs, and non-YAs, struggle with being "allergic" to certain passages. Sometimes these allergies come from something specific in our background, sometimes it's just that the words of a passage don't appeal to us. What is so powerful about this type of meditation is that there are so many different passages from so many traditions and authors. We can choose passages to inspire us, to comfort us, and even to challenge us.

We'd love to hear about a time when a specific passage spoke to you. How did you choose it? How did it impact you? Share your thoughts in the comments below:

  • What's an example of a time when you used a particular passage to support or challenge your daily life?
  • If you meditated on "United in Heart", what qualities might you gain?

Note: If you're interested in learning to meditate, or would like to share this form of meditation with a friend, you could take part in our free one-hour webinar on this Saturday, October 4th. Visit the website for more details and to register.


United in Heart – The Rig Veda

May we be united in heart. May we be united in speech. May we be united in mind. May we perform our duties as did the wise of old. 

May we be united in our prayer. May we be united in our goal. May we be united in our resolve. May we be united in our understanding. May we be united in our offering. May we be united in our feelings. May we be united in our hearts. May we be united in our thoughts. May there be perfect unity amongst us.

The Cohort Experience

Earlier this year the BMCM launched a new extended program for YAs, the Cohort Program. We've already heard from Gary about his experience in his first weeklong retreat as part of the program. This week, Chanel shares her overall experience as a cohort and how it's impacted her practice since the program finished in July.

Easwaran once said,

"In mountain climbing, you tie yourself to others with ropes so that if somebody slips you do not say, 'Have you hit the ground?' or 'Good riddance'; you try to prevent that person from falling by hauling him up and saving him. Similarly in living with family or friends, if somebody slips you do not say, 'Aha! Served him right,' or 'You’ve been asking for that for a long time.' Instead you pull him up."

This is how I found the cohort program to be; YAs that have the opportunity to support each other in our practice and pull one another up when we slip.

The cohort program consisted of three video discussions, a weekend retreat, a weeklong retreat, and a stay at a beach house in Tomales Bay. Each piece of the program was a brilliant amalgam of unique insights and perspectives.

During the weeklong we got the chance to interact with meditators from all walks of life. Sharing how we can realistically weave the eight points into our days with work and school and family life has always been my favorite part of retreats. Being at an all ages retreat made this experience rich with diversity. Doctors, teachers, students, long-time meditators, short-term meditators – we were all together sharing and supporting each other on our path. Prior to the weeklong retreat, I was worried the schedule might be too intensive for me. This was not so. Every day was built with reflection time as well as a delicate balance of eight points and recreational activities. Let's just say there was ample time for naps. The cohorts had time for retreat-friendly parties as well including (but not limited to) a garden party, ice cream soirée and a hybrid game of volleyball mixed with a bit of soccer, creatively named "soccer-volleyball".

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Chanel (far left) participating in "soccer-volleyball" during the weeklong retreat.

And the food... (I won't go into too much detail because that constitutes it's own blog post in itself) so, for now, one word to describe the food spread: inviting. And that is putting it mildly.

I can honestly say I built and strengthened my friendships with several YAs (and yes we talk outside of meditation retreats and yes we talk about more than just meditation). I cannot express enough how wonderful it is to be with other young people that share a similar spiritual goal. It is unlike any other connection I have known.

There were many aspects of the program that stood out to me. The beach house weekend was definitely one of my favorite times. We really had the opportunity to experience what it means to live in a spiritual household. Rather than trying to motivate ourselves, we had each other to inspire and practice the eight points with. Weaving the eight points throughout our days was easy and seamless. In the midst of all this, we were having so much fun hanging out, cooking together, baking tasty delights, writing birthday rap songs, singing and beach walking. We fell into a natural rhythm with each other and the eight points as our collective drum.

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Chanel (right) serving dinner made at the beach house weekend.

Overall, the chance to dive deeper into the eight points and have the support of friends as we climb the meditation mountain is a chance I am grateful to have and will continue to share forever.

"It is marvelous to watch this team of dedicated, aspiring young climbers on these precipitous slopes, each tied to the one ahead and all tied together to their teacher. Life is like that, a vast web of delicate relationships binding us together in love.” – Easwaran in Climbing the Blue Mountain

I'd like to thank my fellow cohort, Jan, for digging out these Easwaran quotes for me and with so little clues.

Registration for the 2015 Cohort Program opens on October 1, 2014. Visit YAmeditation.org/cohort to learn more about the program.

 

Easwaran Q&A: Training Attention

At its core, meditation is learning to train our attention. What is so striking about Easwaran's method of meditation is that you don't rely solely on the 30 minutes you spend seated in meditation to train attention  your whole day is full of opportunities to do just that. One of the things we appreciate about Easwaran's writings is how he's able to be firm in his instructions, but in a way that is encouraging and friendly.

We were talking in the YA Blog Team recently about how we can find ourselves scattered or bored during the day, and how Easwaran would say that this is because we simply don't have our attention on the task at hand. We want to share this excerpt from a recent Blue Mountain Journal where Easwaran talks about benefits and tips for training attention.

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From the Summer 2014 Blue Mountain Journal:

I really want to help my community and the world, but it seems so hard. Why do our efforts have so little effect?

Easwaran: The answer is that most of us have minds that are scattered or distracted: sometimes positive, sometimes negative, constantly changing with our shifting moods and desires. Flicking attention is a sure sign of a divided mind. Division is tension. Division is friction. Division is ineffectiveness. Division is futility. And a mind divided cannot stand. Most of us have a mind that is divided; that is why it sometimes cannot stand under the impact of life.

It is the concentrated, focused mind that reaches people. All the great changes in the world for good and for ill have come from the impact of men and women with an overriding singleness of purpose and a concentrated mind. In our own times, on the positive side, Gandhi is a perfect example.

The last hundred years have seen incessant turbulence, change, and danger. Around the world, people are living with a deep anxiety about the future. In such situations it is only natural to ask now and then, “Why was I born into times like these?” The answer I would give is that we have been born to be of help to others. Desperate times are a sign of a more desperate need. To make our full contribution, we need to train the mind to be at peace and then radiate that peace to those around us.

Can you say more about making our full contribution? I’m wondering if I should change my job. 

Easwaran: Whoever we are, we can improve our contribution to the world simply by giving complete attention to the job at hand in a spirit of detachment. We don’t have to compare our lives or work with others’. All that is expected of us is that we give our very best to whatever responsibilities come our way. As our capacity to contribute increases, greater responsibilities will come to us. That is the way spiritual growth has always taken place down the centuries.

When I began to meditate, I don’t ever think it occurred to me to change jobs or to try to make a “spiritual” contribution with my writing. I simply gave more and more attention to my teaching  to my colleagues and especially to my students. I was meditating every day on the words of the Bhagavad Gita, where Sri Krishna counsels: “Do your best; then leave the results to me.”

So what does that mean in practice? And how does it fit with one-pointedness?

Easwaran: It is helpful to keep each of these three aspects in mind  attention, detachment, and the job at hand. But before I comment on them, I want to emphasize that they are not really separate. They are three elements of a single skill.

When you dedicate yourself to the task at hand with complete concentration and without any trace of egotistic involvement, you are learning to live completely in the present. You are making yourself whole, undivided, which is the goal of the spiritual life and the meaning of the much-misunderstood word yoga.

In reality, all these three amount to unifying our attention. We don’t usually think in these terms, but when we ignore responsibilities, we are actually dividing our attention. When we postpone or neglect a task that needs doing, we are dividing attention. When we do a job halfheartedly, we are dividing attention.

Even when we get personally entangled in our activities, we are dividing our attention. And if “dividing attention” sounds abstract, let me assure you it is utterly practical. When we divide our attention, we split ourselves, which weakens everything we do. In this sense, perhaps the simplest expression of our goal in meditation is that we are trying to make ourselves whole.

Could you tell us more about how to do that?

Easwaran: Let me offer a few practical suggestions from my own experience.

Over time, every job becomes routine. For a year or two everything seems new; every task presents an interesting challenge. But after a few years, it’s “Oh, another patient, another client, another performance, another report.” New things have a way of becoming old; new hats become old hat; everything becomes passé. 

The answer is not to change jobs, drop out, or walk away, but to give more attention and do the very best we can. With complete attention, everything in life becomes fresh.

Therefore, the Gita says, don’t ask, “Is this interesting? Is this exciting?” If a job is exciting today, it’s going to be depressing later. Unless it is at the expense of life, give it your very best. Doing a routine job well, with concentration, is the greatest challenge I can imagine. You’re not just doing a job but learning a skill: the skill of improving concentration, which pays rich dividends in every aspect of life.

Finally, in attending to the task at hand, the Gita urges us never to get attached to personal pleasure or profit. Whatever the job, do it as a service to others. Don’t do it to gain credit or prestige or to win attention.

And please don’t ever compare yourself with others, saying things like “If only I had that person’s job.” Jealousy can be terrible anywhere, but it is especially terrible in work. It not only separates people; it actually sets you back in your spiritual growth. That is why the Gita advises us to give our best with the welfare of all in mind, in which our own welfare is included.

This is the essence of the Gita’s message. Interest in personal gain is what gets us entangled. We get stuck in a particular groove, and that handicaps our performance; eventually we can’t do the job well, we can’t see that we aren’t doing it well, and we can’t let go of it. We get so entangled in one particular aspect that we forget all other aspects  forget, for example, that people are waiting, or that bills are piling up.

Through many, many years of unremitting effort based on the practice of meditation, we can train the mind to be detached from every attempt to cling for security to anything outside. That’s what detachment means: you need nothing from anything or anyone outside you; you are complete.

As this kind of detachment grows, all the desires that have been flowing towards money and material possessions and prestige and power begin to flow back into your own hands, bringing a tremendous consolidation of vitality, love, and wisdom to everything you do.